Seducing a woman requires a certain sequence, set of circumstances and applications in order for it to work. Within that framework, but that framework still has to be there.
Just like a super-charged, perfectly tuned, 450 horsepower, V-8 engine won't run without the oxygen to burn the fuel, seduction only works when there are certain necessary conditions.
Condition One: You've Got To Be In The Right Frame Of Mind
As I have said time and again, in any area of life, if you are coming from a place of hunger, or need, or desperately trying to prove to yourself that you can win again, then you almost certainly guaranteed to fail. You'll simply push away the very thing you want and get locked into a self-perpetuating "defeat-cycle" that gets you nowhere.
Viewed like this, that incredible babe you want to bed isn't someone you need to fear. She's someone who's about to receive an incredible gift from you, a gift she might continue to receive IF she's smart enough and hot enough and sexy enough to give you what it takes to keep YOU coming back for more.
Just imagine the difference when you can look at a honey-pie and honestly think to yourself, "How good can this woman stand to feel? Let's go have fun and find out!".
Speaking of fun, another big part of being in the right frame of mind is refusing to take it seriously.
By that, I mean you take the attitude that you are experimenting, having fun, and if what you do doesn't work, you've simply polished your skills and learned something new.
Condition Two: Sufficient Time To Speak With Your Subject
Can you talk to woman if you really don't have much of a chance to talk to them? Sure...but your effectiveness goes WAY down.
You need to give yourself sufficient time to talk to your subject.
Condition Three: Enough Flexibility To Get The Initial Entry Way Into Her Neurology.
When you start talking to a woman, the point is to find that initial entry into her neurology that lights her up and gets a strong response.
Sometimes this requires you to cycle through a few approaches.
Now what is the point of this? Just that you wouldn't have been able to do this if you didn't have the ability/flexibility to keep right on going when the approaches you tried fell flat.
http://speedseductions.blogspot.com/2007/05/3-tips-to-triple-your-seduction-success.html
Peace and Piece,
Ross Jeffries
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